์˜์–ด๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋‹จ ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ

์ด๋ฏธ์ง€
์˜์–ด๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์ง€๋งŒ ์–ด๋””์„œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ์ง€ ๋ง‰๋ง‰ํ•œ๊ฐ€์š”? ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋‹จ ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ์€ ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ์ด์ƒ์˜ ํž˜์„ ์ง€๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๊ณ , ๋” ๊นŠ์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋กœ ๋‚˜์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ์š”? ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ์ƒํ™ฉ๊ณผ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋งž์ถ˜ ๋งž์ถคํ˜• ๋ฌธ์žฅ ๊ตฌ์„ฑ๋ฒ• ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ์‹ค์ œ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ํ™œ์šฉ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ์˜ˆ์‹œ์™€ ํŒ 1. ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๋Š” ๋ฐ ๊ผญ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์ฒซ์ธ์‚ฌ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์˜ ์—ญํ• ๊ณผ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ 1) ์ฒซ์ธ์‚ฌ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ์˜ํ–ฅ๋ ฅ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๋Š” ๊ณผ์ •์—์„œ ์ฒซ์ธ์‚ฌ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ด๋ฏธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์‹ฌ์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒฐ์ •์  ์ˆœ๊ฐ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ง„์‹ฌ์ด ๋‹ด๊ธด ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ํ˜ธ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“๋Š” ์ดˆ์„ ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•˜์ฃ . ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™ ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด, ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์ด ์ „์ฒด ๋Œ€์ธ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ 55%๊นŒ์ง€ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์นœ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ณด๊ณ ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ, ์˜์–ด๊ถŒ ๋ฌธํ™”์—์„œ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์‚ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ธฐ์˜ ํ•„์ˆ˜ ์Šคํ‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 2) ์ดˆ๋ณด์ž๋„ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ํ™œ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ๊ตฌ์กฐ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋ง ๋ถ™์ด๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋‘๋ ต๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ง‰ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํ•™์Šต์ž๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ๊ตฌ์กฐ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ตํžˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, "Hi, my name is [์ด๋ฆ„]. What's your name?"๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๊ณ  ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ, ์ดํ›„ ์˜๊ฒฌ ๊ตํ™˜์ด๋‚˜ ๊ณตํ†ต ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ ํƒ์ƒ‰์œผ๋กœ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 3) ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋งž์ถ˜ ์‘์šฉ๋ฒ• ์ฒซ์ธ์‚ฌ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ๊ณผ ์žฅ์†Œ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•™๊ต, ์ง์žฅ, ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆํ‹ฐ ๋“ฑ ๊ฐ๊ธฐ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์—์„œ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ†ค๊ณผ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ํ•™๊ต์—์„œ๋Š” “Are you new here? I’d love to be friends!”์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋‹ค์ •ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์ด, ์ง...

์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„

์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„

Making a strong first impression in English can open doors to meaningful friendships. Mastering simple yet effective expressions helps you connect naturally and confidently. What are the best phrases to leave a positive mark when meeting new friends? Explore practical ways to enhance your social skills with ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋งž๋Š” ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ธฐ์˜ ๋ฌธํ„ฑ์„ ๋‚ฎ์ถœ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ๊ณผ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋ฉด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์˜ ์ •ํ™•์„ฑ๊ณผ ๋งค๋ ฅ์„ ๋†’์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

1. How to Make a Positive First Impression in English: Key Phrases and Approaches

1) Why First Impressions Matter in Friendships

First impressions shape how others perceive you and influence future interactions. In social settings, the initial words you choose can establish trust and openness. Studies show that people form judgments within seconds, making your opening expressions crucial for lasting connections.

Using friendly, approachable language signals confidence and warmth, inviting others to engage comfortably. This is especially vital for non-native English speakers who may feel anxious about language barriers.

2) Essential English Expressions to Start Friendships

Simple greetings like “Hi, nice to meet you!” or “I love your style, where did you get that?” create instant rapport. Compliments and open-ended questions encourage conversation flow and show genuine interest.

Examples include:

Common Engaging Phrases

  • “What do you enjoy doing in your free time?”
  • “I’m new around here; do you have any recommendations?”
  • “That’s a great point! Can you tell me more?”

These expressions ease tension and invite dialogue, making your presence memorable and approachable.

3) The Role of Non-Verbal Communication in First Impressions

Beyond words, body language such as eye contact, smiling, and open posture reinforces your message. Non-verbal cues often convey sincerity and help build trust faster than language alone.

Combining verbal expressions with positive body language creates a holistic impression that resonates well in diverse social contexts.

2. Tailoring English Expressions to Different Social Situations: Casual to Professional

1) Casual Settings: Informal and Friendly Language

In relaxed environments like parties or hobby groups, informal expressions foster easy connections. Phrases like “Hey, how’s it going?” or “I’m glad we met!” reflect a laid-back attitude.

Using humor or shared interests can also break the ice effectively, making conversations more engaging.

2) Academic and Workplace Contexts: Polite and Professional Tone

When meeting peers or colleagues, it’s important to balance friendliness with professionalism. Expressions such as “It’s a pleasure to meet you” or “I’ve heard great things about your work” convey respect and interest.

Building rapport here involves attentive listening and thoughtful responses that encourage collaboration.

3) Cultural Sensitivity and Context Awareness

Understanding cultural nuances can prevent misunderstandings. For example, direct compliments may be appreciated in some cultures but perceived as intrusive in others.

Adapting your expressions to the listener’s background shows respect and enhances your credibility as a communicator.

Social Setting Typical Expressions Tone Purpose
Casual (Friends, Parties) “Hey, how’s it going?”, “What’s your favorite hobby?” Informal, relaxed Build rapport, share interests
Academic (Classmates, Study Groups) “Nice to meet you”, “Do you want to study together?” Polite, friendly Collaboration, trust
Professional (Workplace, Networking) “It’s a pleasure to meet you”, “I admire your work” Formal, respectful Build credibility, foster cooperation
Cross-Cultural “Where are you from?”, “I’d love to learn about your culture” Respectful, curious Show sensitivity, deepen connection

Understanding how to adapt your language and demeanor across various social contexts is essential for making lasting impressions. Next, we will delve into advanced techniques and specific phrase examples that will elevate your conversational skills and help you confidently build new friendships.

Cambridge Dictionary - Social English Expressions

3. ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์ž ๊ฒฝํ—˜: ์˜์–ด ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ ์šฉ ์‚ฌ๋ก€์™€ ํšจ๊ณผ ๋น„๊ต

1) ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ณต ์‚ฌ๋ก€ ๋ถ„์„

์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋ ค๋Š” ์‹œ๋„๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์‚ฌํšŒ์  ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ๊ธ์ •์  ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๋‚ณ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ํ•ด์™ธ ์œ ํ•™ ์ค‘ “Hi, nice to meet you!”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•œ ํ•™์ƒ๋“ค์ด ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ณ  ํ•™์—… ํ˜‘๋ ฅ๋„ ์›ํ™œํžˆ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ง์žฅ ๋‚ด์—์„œ๋Š” “I admire your work” ๊ฐ™์€ ์กด์ค‘์„ ๋‹ด์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๋™๋ฃŒ์™€์˜ ์‹ ๋ขฐ ํ˜•์„ฑ์— ๊ธฐ์—ฌํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ๋„คํŠธ์›Œํ‚น ํ–‰์‚ฌ์—์„œ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์‹œ๋„๋Š” ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ธ๋งฅ ํ™•์žฅ์— ๊ฒฐ์ •์  ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์‚ฌ์šฉ์ž ๊ฒฝํ—˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ ์žฅ๋‹จ์  ๋น„๊ต

์žฅ์ ์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ์—ด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด ์–ธ์–ด ์žฅ๋ฒฝ์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•  ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์ œ๊ณตํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด, ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ํ˜•์‹์ ์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ถ€์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ†ค ์กฐ์ ˆ์ด ํ•„์ˆ˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋˜ํ•œ, ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ์š”์†Œ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๋•Œ ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ๊ทน๋Œ€ํ™”๋˜๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋‹จ์ˆœ ์•”๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค ์‹ค์ œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ์˜ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€ ์ถ”์ฒœ: ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ๊ณผ ํ™œ์šฉ ํŒ

์–ธ์–ด ๊ต์œก ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€๋“ค์€ ์ฒซ ๋งŒ๋‚จ์—์„œ ๊ฐ„๊ฒฐํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์ด ๋‹ด๊ธด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๊ถŒ์žฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กด์ค‘์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ๋ง๋ถ™์ด๋ฉด ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํ˜•์„ฑ์— ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “Where are you from?” ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๊ทธ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•œ ์ ์„ ๋ฌป๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ๊นŠ์ด๋ฅผ ๋”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. British Council - First Impressions Guide์—์„œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€์™€ ํŒ์„ ์ฐธ๊ณ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ A: ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ง๊ณผ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ์นญ์ฐฌ์€ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๊ฐœ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ B: ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋งค์šฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ C: ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ์†Œํ†ต(๋ฏธ์†Œ, ๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค ๋“ฑ)์„ ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
์š”์†Œ ์„ฑ๊ณต์  ์ ์šฉ ๋„์ „๊ณผ์ œ ์žฅ๊ธฐ์  ํšจ๊ณผ
๊ฐ„๋‹จ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ง ์ฆ‰๊ฐ์  ์นœ๊ทผ๊ฐ ์กฐ์„ฑ ์ž์นซ ์ง„๋ถ€ํ•ด์งˆ ์œ„ํ—˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ๋ฌธํ„ฑ ๋‚ฎ์ถค
๋ฌธํ™”์  ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์‹ฌ์ธต ๋Œ€ํ™” ์œ ๋„ ๋ถ€์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ์ฃผ์˜ ํ•„์š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ์‹ ๋ขฐ ํš๋“
๋น„์–ธ์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ง„์ •์„ฑ ์ „๋‹ฌ ๊ฐ•ํ™” ๊ณผ์žฅ ์‹œ ์—ญํšจ๊ณผ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ ์ง€์†์  ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ ํ˜•์„ฑ
์นญ์ฐฌ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ๊ธ์ •์  ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ ์กฐ์„ฑ ๊ณผํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ถ€์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›€ ์ข‹์€ ๊ธฐ์–ต ์œ ์ง€

4. ๊ณ ๊ธ‰ ์˜์–ด ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ํ‘œํ˜„: ์‹ฌํ™” ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ๊ณผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์ „๋žต

1) ์‹ฌํ™” ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์œผ๋กœ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ ๋†’์ด๊ธฐ

“I couldn’t agree more with your point about…” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€ ์˜๊ฒฌ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ฐœ์ „์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์‹ฌํ™” ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์ด๊ณ  ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋˜ํ•œ, “Would you mind sharing your thoughts on…”๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ์š”์ฒญ์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋” ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ํ๋ฆ„์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์–ด ๋ฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ ๊ธฐ๋ฒ•

“By the way,” “That reminds me,” “Speaking of which” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๋ฉด์„œ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ฃผ์ œ๋กœ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์—ด๋ฆฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ์ ์ ˆํžˆ ํ™œ์šฉํ•ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋„๋ก ์œ ๋„ํ•˜๋ฉด ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์ด ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ˜•์„ฑ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๋Š” ํŒ: ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์–ต์–‘์— ์‹ ๊ฒฝ ์“ฐ๊ธฐ

๋ฐœ์Œ์ด ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ๋‹จ์กฐ๋กœ์šด ์–ต์–‘์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ดํ•ด๋„๋ฅผ ๋–จ์–ด๋œจ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ฒœ์ฒœํžˆ ๋˜๋ฐ•๋˜๋ฐ• ๋งํ•˜๊ณ , ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์—๋Š” ์–ต์–‘์„ ์‚ด๋ ค ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋ฉด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์‹ค์ œ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์–ต์–‘์„ ์ตํžˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

5. ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์—์„œ ํ˜ธ๊ฐ ์–ป๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ํ–‰๋™: ๊ธ€๋กœ๋ฒŒ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ๊ท€๊ธฐ ์ „๋žต

1) ๋ฌธํ™”๋ณ„ ์˜ˆ์ ˆ๊ณผ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜ ํŠน์ง• ์ดํ•ด

์„œ์–‘ ๋ฌธํ™”์—์„œ๋Š” ์ง์ ‘์ ์ด๊ณ  ๊ฐœ๋ฐฉ์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ด์ง€๋งŒ, ๋™์•„์‹œ์•„ ๋ฌธํ™”์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ฐ„์ ‘์ ์ด๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ์ค‘์‹œํ•˜๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์„ ํ˜ธ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋งž๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ํ‰๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ํ•ต์‹ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด ๊ทน๋ณต์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ๊ณตํ†ต ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ ์ฐพ๊ธฐ

์Œ์‹, ์—ฌํ–‰, ์ทจ๋ฏธ ๋“ฑ ๋ณดํŽธ์  ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๋„˜์–ด์„œ๋Š” ๊ณต๊ฐ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ํ˜•์„ฑํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “Have you tried any local dishes you’d recommend?” ๊ฐ™์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๊ณตํ†ต ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์„ ์Œ“๋Š” ์ „๋žต์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์กด์ค‘๊ณผ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ์„ ๋™์‹œ์— ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•

์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์งˆ๋ฌธํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์กด์ค‘์„ ๋‹ด์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. “I’d love to learn more about your traditions, if you don’t mind sharing”๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์นœ๊ทผํ•จ๊ณผ ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ๋™์‹œ์— ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํƒœ๋„๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์‹ฌ์–ด์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ’๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ D: ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์˜ ์˜ˆ์ ˆ์„ ์‚ฌ์ „์— ์กฐ์‚ฌํ•ด ์‹ค์ˆ˜ ์—†์ด ์ ‘๊ทผํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ E: ๊ณตํ†ต ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ ์ค‘์‹ฌ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋Š” ๊ธด์žฅ ์™„ํ™”์— ๋›ฐ์–ด๋‚ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ F: ์กด์ค‘๊ณผ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ์ด ๊ท ํ˜•์„ ์ด๋ฃจ๋ฉด ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์ด ๋ฐฐ๊ฐ€๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

6. ์ผ์ƒ์—์„œ ์‹ค์ฒœํ•˜๋Š” ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ ๊ฐ•ํ™”๋ฒ•: ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์—ฐ์Šต๊ณผ ์ž๊ธฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ

1) ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ๋กคํ”Œ๋ ˆ์ด์™€ ๋…น์Œ์œผ๋กœ ์ž๊ธฐ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์ ๊ฒ€

์นœ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ๋™๋ฃŒ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์ƒ์ •ํ•ด ๋กคํ”Œ๋ ˆ์ด๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ๋†’์ด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋…น์Œ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ฐœ์Œ, ์–ต์–‘, ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๊ฐ๊ด€์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐœ์„ ์ ์„ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๊ธ์ •์  ์ž๊ธฐ ์•”์‹œ์™€ ๋ชฉํ‘œ ์„ค์ •

“I can make new friends confidently”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•ด ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€์—ฌํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™” ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์„ธ์›Œ ๊ณ„ํš์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ ‘๊ทผํ•˜๋ฉด ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฐ๊ฐ€๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์‹ค์ œ ๋งŒ๋‚จ ์ดํ›„ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ ๋ฐ›๊ธฐ

์นœ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์นœํ•œ ๋™๋ฃŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์ฒซ ๋งŒ๋‚จ ํ›„ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด๋‚˜ ํƒœ๋„์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์†”์งํ•œ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์š”์ฒญํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”.

์ด๋Š” ๋‹ค์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚จ์—์„œ ๋” ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ๋งค๋ ฅ์ ์ธ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋ฐ ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์—ฐ์Šต ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• ์žฅ์  ํ•„์š” ๋„๊ตฌ/ํ™˜๊ฒฝ ์ถ”์ฒœ ๋นˆ๋„
๋กคํ”Œ๋ ˆ์ด ํ˜„์‹ค๊ฐ ์žˆ๋Š” ์—ฐ์Šต, ์ฆ‰๊ฐ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋˜๋Š” ์Šคํ„ฐ๋”” ๊ทธ๋ฃน ์ฃผ 1~2ํšŒ
๋…น์Œ ์ ๊ฒ€ ์ž๊ธฐ ์ธ์‹ ํ–ฅ์ƒ, ๋ฐœ์Œ ๊ฐœ์„  ์Šค๋งˆํŠธํฐ ๋˜๋Š” ๋…น์Œ๊ธฐ ํ•„์š” ์‹œ ์ˆ˜์‹œ
์ž๊ธฐ์•”์‹œ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ ์ฆ์ง„, ๊ธ์ •์  ๋งˆ์Œ๊ฐ€์ง ์ž๊ธฐ ๋ฉ”๋ชจ์žฅ ๋˜๋Š” ์Šค๋งˆํŠธํฐ ์•Œ๋ฆผ ๋งค์ผ ์•„์นจ ๋˜๋Š” ์ „๋‚  ๋ฐค
ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ ์š”์ฒญ ์‹ค์ œ ๊ฐœ์„ ์  ๋„์ถœ ์‹ ๋ขฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ง€์ธ ๋งŒ๋‚จ ํ›„ ์ฆ‰์‹œ

7. ์ž์ฃผ ๋ฌป๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ (FAQ)

Q. ์ฒซ ๋งŒ๋‚จ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ์„œํˆด๋Ÿฌ๋„ ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
๋„ค, ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„๋„ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํƒœ๋„์™€ ์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์ด ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์ธ์‚ฌ์™€ ๋ฏธ์†Œ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ด€์‹ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ฒซ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ์†Œํ†ต๋„ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•œ ๋„๊ตฌ์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค๊ณผ ๋ชธ์ง“์„ ์ ๊ทน ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
Q. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
๊ทธ๋ ‡์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ์ข‹์ง€๋งŒ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋А๋ผ๋„๋ก ์ ๋‹นํ•œ ๋นˆ๋„์™€ ํ†ค์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ•˜๊ธฐ ๊บผ๋ คํ•˜๋Š” ๋“ฏํ•˜๋ฉด ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ํ๋ฆ„์„ ์šฐ์„ ์‹œํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
Q. ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ด๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์„๊นŒ์š”?
๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๋ฌด์‹œํ•˜๋ฉด ์˜คํ•ด๋‚˜ ๋ถˆ์พŒ๊ฐ์„ ์‚ด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ ์กฐ์‚ฌ๋Š” ํ•„์ˆ˜์ด๋ฉฐ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์„ธ์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ด€์ฐฐํ•˜๋ฉฐ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์กฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ”๋žŒ์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์กด์ค‘๊ณผ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ์„ ๋‹ด์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ์ข‹์€ ์‹œ์ž‘์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ์ฒซ ๋งŒ๋‚จ์—์„œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์นญ์ฐฌ์„ ํ•ด๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?
๊ณผ๋„ํ•œ ์นญ์ฐฌ์€ ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๋ถ€์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋‹ด์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ•œ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์นญ์ฐฌ์ด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ด๋ฉฐ, ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ด๊ณ  ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ ์ธ ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋„๋ฅผ ๋†’์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด “I really like your presentation style” ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
Q. ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์š”์†Œ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
๋ˆˆ๋งž์ถค๊ณผ ๋ฏธ์†Œ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ด๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋Š” ์นœ๊ทผํ•จ๊ณผ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์ฆ‰๊ฐ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์ž์„ธ(ํŒ”์งฑ ๋ผ์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ)์™€ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๋ชธ์ง“๋„ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ•ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ํฐ ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ๋ธ”๋กœ๊ทธ์˜ ์ธ๊ธฐ ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ

๊ฐ์‹ค ์ฒญ์†Œ ์š”์ฒญ·๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ํ˜ธํ…” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ •๋ฆฌ

์ง€๊ธˆ ๋†“์น˜๋ฉด ํ›„ํšŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋“€์˜ค๋ง๊ณ  ํ”„๋ฆฌ๋ฏธ์—„ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ์ฒดํ—˜ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”

๋งต๊ธฐ ์กฐ์ ˆ ์š”์ฒญ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”