์ฑ„์ ์ž ์ž…์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ณธ ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ๊ณ ๋“์  ๋‹ต๋ณ€ ํŠน์ง•

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ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์‹œํ—˜์—์„œ ๊ณ ๋“์ ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์„ ๋„˜์–ด ์ฑ„์ ์ž ์ž…์žฅ์—์„œ ๋ณธ ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ๊ณ ๋“์  ๋‹ต๋ณ€ ํŠน์ง• ์„ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ•„์ˆ˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฑ„์ ์ž๋“ค์ด ์–ด๋–ค ์š”์†Œ๋ฅผ ์ค‘์ ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ๋ฉด, ๋”์šฑ ์ „๋žต์ ์ด๊ณ  ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์„ ์ค€๋น„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ฑ„์ ์ž๋“ค์€ ๊ณ ๋“์  ๋‹ต๋ณ€์—์„œ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ณตํ†ต๋œ ํŠน์ง•์„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์œ ์ฐฝํ•œ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ณ ๋“์ ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ์กฐ๊ฑด์ด๋‹ค. ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์ ์ธ ๋‹ต๋ณ€ ๊ตฌ์„ฑ๊ณผ ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ธ ์˜ˆ์‹œ ์ œ๊ณต์ด ํ‰๊ฐ€์—์„œ ํฐ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฏธ์นœ๋‹ค. ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์  ์ •ํ™•์„ฑ๊ณผ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์–ดํœ˜ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์€ ์ ์ˆ˜ ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ฒฐ์ •์ง“๋Š”๋‹ค. 1. ์ฑ„์ ์ž์˜ ์‹œ์„ ์—์„œ ๋ณธ ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ๊ณ ๋“์  ๋‹ต๋ณ€์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์†Œ ๋ถ„์„ 1) ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์–ต์–‘: ์ฑ„์ ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ฃผ๋ชฉํ•˜๋Š” ์Œ์„ฑ์  ์š”์†Œ ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น์—์„œ ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์–ต์–‘์€ ์ฑ„์ ์ž๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋จผ์ € ์ฃผ๋ชฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋ฐœ์Œ์€ ์˜์‚ฌ ์ „๋‹ฌ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ด๋ฉฐ, ์–ต์–‘์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์˜ ์˜๋ฏธ๋ฅผ ํ’๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฑ„์ ์ž๋“ค์€ ๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์ •ํ™•ํžˆ ๋ฐœ์Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ฟ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ, ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๋ฆฌ๋“ฌ๊ณผ ๊ฐ•์„ธ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋‹ต๋ณ€์ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋“ค๋ฆฌ๋Š”์ง€๋ฅผ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ, ๊ฐ•์„ธ๊ฐ€ ๋ถˆ๋ถ„๋ช…ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋А๋ฆฐ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฐ์  ์š”์ธ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ, ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์Œ์„ฑ ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 2) ์œ ์ฐฝ์„ฑ ๋ฐ ์ผ๊ด€์„ฑ: ๋‹ต๋ณ€์˜ ํ๋ฆ„๊ณผ ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์  ์ „๊ฐœ ํ† ์ต์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์‘์‹œ๋ฃŒ ์•„๊น์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• ์œ ์ฐฝ์„ฑ์€ ๋‹ต๋ณ€์ด ๋Š๊น€ ์—†์ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด์ง€๋Š” ์ •๋„๋ฅผ ๋œปํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฑ„์ ์ž๋“ค์€ ๋‹ต๋ณ€ ์ค‘ ๋ถˆํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋ฉˆ์ถค, ๋ฐ˜๋ณต, ๋ง์„ค์ž„์ด ์ ์€ ์ง€์›์ž์—๊ฒŒ ๋†’์€ ์ ์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ, ๋‹ต๋ณ€ ๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ž˜ ์ „๊ฐœ๋˜์–ด ์ผ๊ด€์„ฑ์ด ์œ ์ง€๋  ๋•Œ ์ข‹์€ ํ‰๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ ์ œ์‹œ ํ›„ ์ด์œ ์™€ ์˜ˆ์‹œ๋ฅผ ์ฐจ๋ก€๋Œ€๋กœ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ตฌ์กฐ๊ฐ€ ์š”๊ตฌ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 3) ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์  ์ •ํ™•์„ฑ๊ณผ ์–ดํœ˜ ๋‹ค์–‘์„ฑ ์ฑ„์ ์ž๋“ค์€ ๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ์˜ค๋ฅ˜๊ฐ€ ์ ๊ณ , ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ๊ตฌ์กฐ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹ต๋ณ€์— ๋†’์€ ์ ์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ๋ถ€์—ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋งŒ ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค, ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์‹œ์ œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๊ณผ ๋ณตํ•ฉ...

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‰ฝ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๋„์ „์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ์–ธ์–ด ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๋„˜์–ด ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ์†Œํ†ต์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜์ฃ . ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ™œ์šฉํ•ด์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์œผ์‹ ๊ฐ€์š”?

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์œ ์ง€์— ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ์ผ์ƒ์ ์ด๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์ด ๋‹ด๊ธด ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์„ ๋†’์ธ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ์ง€์†์ ์ธ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ตํžˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค.

1. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์˜ค๋ž˜๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ํ•„์ˆ˜ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ์†Œํ†ต ์ „๋žต

1) ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ๊ทธ๋“ค์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ  ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “I appreciate your culture” ๋˜๋Š” “It’s interesting to learn about your traditions” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋„˜์–ด ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ •์ฒด์„ฑ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜์—ฌ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์„ ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์ผ์ƒ์—์„œ ์ž์ฃผ ์“ฐ์ด๋Š” ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

ํ‰์†Œ ์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์ธ์‚ฌ๋‚˜ ์นญ์ฐฌ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋„ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. “How have you been?”, “That’s a great idea!”, “I’m here if you need anything” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๊ธฐ์— ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ง€์†์ ์ธ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์ง€์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๋ฉฐ, ์„œ๋กœ์˜ ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์„ ๋†’์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ง„์†”ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•

๊ฐ์ •์„ ์†”์งํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์‹ ๋ขฐ ํ˜•์„ฑ์— ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. “I really value our friendship” ๋˜๋Š” “It means a lot to me” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํžˆ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ง„์ •์„ฑ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๊ณ  ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋”์šฑ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€์˜ ์ง€์†์ ์ธ ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์‹ค์šฉ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ•

1) ์ผ์ƒ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์†Œํ†ต ํ‘œํ˜„

๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์—ฐ๋ฝ์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์œ ์ง€์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. “Let’s catch up soon”, “How’s your day going?” ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋•Œ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฌป๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธํ˜• ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ์ด ์ƒ๊ธธ ๋•Œ๋Š” “I understand your point” ํ˜น์€ “Let’s find a solution together”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ž…์žฅ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ˜‘๋ ฅ ์˜์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ๋ฌธ์ œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ ์˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ์–ด ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํšŒ๋ณต์— ๊ธฐ์—ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋‚ ์— ์ „ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ถ•ํ•˜์™€ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„

์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ƒ์ผ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ธฐ๋…์ผ์— “Happy Birthday! I’m grateful for your friendship” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋ฉด ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•œ ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ์ „ํ•ด์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์†Œ์ค‘ํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋А๋‚Œ์„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”ํ•˜์—ฌ ์šฐ์ •์„ ๋”์šฑ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ญ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์ง€์†์ ์ธ ์†Œํ†ต์— ๋„์›€ ๋˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค

  • Let’s keep in touch – ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์œ ์ง€ ์˜์ง€ ํ‘œํ˜„
  • Thank you for your understanding – ๊ฐ์‚ฌ์™€ ๋ฐฐ๋ ค
  • Looking forward to seeing you – ๋งŒ๋‚จ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ฐ
  • Sorry if I misunderstood – ์˜คํ•ด ํ•ด์†Œ ์‹œ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ
ํ‘œํ˜„ ์œ ํ˜• ์˜ˆ์‹œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ์šฉ๋„ ํšจ๊ณผ
๋ฌธํ™” ์กด์ค‘ I appreciate your culture. ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด ์ธ์ • ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ๊ณผ ์‹ ๋ขฐ ์ฆ์ง„
์ผ์ƒ ์ธ์‚ฌ How have you been? ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์•ˆ๋ถ€ ๋ฌป๊ธฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ์‹œ์ž‘
๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„ I really value our friendship. ์†”์งํ•œ ๋งˆ์Œ ์ „๋‹ฌ ์‹ ๋ขฐ์™€ ์œ ๋Œ€๊ฐ ๊ฐ•ํ™”
๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ Let’s find a solution together. ๋ฌธ์ œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ ํ˜‘๋ ฅ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํšŒ๋ณต ๋ฐ ๋ฐœ์ „

์ด์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์˜ค๋ž˜ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„๋กœ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์„ธ์‹ฌํ•œ ์ ‘๊ทผ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์—์„œ๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์„ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„๋กœ ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ๋” ๊นŠ์ด ๋‹ค๋ค„๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3. ์‹ค์ œ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋ณธ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์˜์–ด ์†Œํ†ต์˜ ํšจ๊ณผ์™€ ํ•œ๊ณ„

1) ์žฅ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„ ์šฐ์ •์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€ ๋ถ„์„

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ 5๋…„ ์ด์ƒ ์šฐ์ •์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋ฉด, ์ •๊ธฐ์ ์ธ ์—ฐ๋ฝ๊ณผ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ๊ด€์‹ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํ•ต์‹ฌ์ž„์„ ์•Œ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์— ๊ฑฐ์ฃผํ•˜๋Š” ํ•œ๊ตญ์ธ์€ ๋งค์ฃผ “How’s your week been?”๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„œ๋กœ์˜ ์ผ์ƒ์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•ด์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ์Šต๊ด€์ด ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ๊ตฌ์ถ•ํ•˜๊ณ , ๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋งŒ, ์–ธ์–ด ์žฅ๋ฒฝ์ด ์™„์ „ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด ์˜คํ•ด๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ํ™œ์šฉ์˜ ์žฅ๋‹จ์ 

์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋•Œ๋กœ๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋งฅ๋ฝ ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ์˜คํ•ด๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ธธ ์œ„ํ—˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “I’m here if you need anything”์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”์—์„œ ์นœ์ ˆํ•จ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ์ผ๋ถ€ ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋ถ€๋‹ด์œผ๋กœ ๋А๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ ์‹œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€๋“ค์€ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•™์  ์—ฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋ฌธํ™” ๊ฐ์ˆ˜์„ฑ์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ์„ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€ ์กฐ์–ธ๊ณผ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ ์ถ”์ฒœ

์–ธ์–ด ๊ต์œก ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€๋“ค์€ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ ‘์ผ๊ด€์„ฑ ์žˆ๋Š” ์†Œํ†ต’๊ณผ ‘์†”์งํ•œ ๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„’์„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์กฐ์–ธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ, ์•ฝ์†์„ ์ง€ํ‚ค๊ณ , ๊ฐ์‚ฌ์™€ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๋ช…ํ™•ํžˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žฅ๊ธฐ์  ์šฐ์ • ์œ ์ง€์— ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋˜ํ•œ, ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ์ตํ˜€ ๋‘๋ฉด ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋„ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ๋Œ€์‘์ด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 1: ์ •๊ธฐ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๊พธ์ค€ํžˆ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 2: ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋ ค๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•ด์•ผ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 3: ์†”์งํ•œ ๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋Š” ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฒฌ๊ณ ํžˆ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
ํ•ญ๋ชฉ ์žฅ์  ๋‹จ์  ์ถ”์ฒœ ์ƒํ™ฉ
์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์˜์–ด ์ธ์‚ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๋Œ€ํ™” ์‹œ์ž‘์ด ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ ํ˜•์„ฑ์— ๋„์›€ ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์„๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ ์ผ์ƒ ๋Œ€ํ™”, ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด ์—ฐ๋ฝ ์‹œ
๊ฐ์ • ์†”์ง ํ‘œํ˜„ ์‹ ๋ขฐ์™€ ์œ ๋Œ€๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”ํ•จ ๊ณผ๋„ํ•œ ๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„ ์‹œ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„, ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ
๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํšŒ๋ณต๊ณผ ๋ฌธ์ œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์— ํšจ๊ณผ์  ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ํƒ€์ด๋ฐ์— ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์‹ฌํ™” ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ, ์˜คํ•ด ํ•ด์†Œ ์‹œ
์ถ•ํ•˜ ๋ฐ ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ์˜๋ฏธ ๋ถ€์—ฌ ๋นˆ๋ฒˆํ•œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ์‹œ ์ง„์ •์„ฑ ์ €ํ•˜ ์œ„ํ—˜ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋‚ , ๊ฐ์‚ฌ ์ธ์‚ฌ ์‹œ

4. ๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•˜๋Š” ์‹ฌ์ธต ์ „๋žต๊ณผ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ๋ฒ•

1) ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋งฅ๋ฝ ์ดํ•ด์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ

์–ธ์–ด๋Š” ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด ์ „๋‹ฌ์„ ๋„˜์–ด, ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ๊ณผ ๋ฐ€์ ‘ํ•œ ๊ด€๋ จ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ “I appreciate your culture” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ๋•Œ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ์ดํ•ด๊ฐ€ ์„ ํ–‰๋˜์–ด์•ผ ์ง„์ •์„ฑ์ด ์ „๋‹ฌ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์ธ์‚ฌ๋ง์ด๋‚˜ ์นญ์ฐฌ ๋ฐฉ์‹๋„ ๋ฌธํ™”๋งˆ๋‹ค ๋‹ค๋ฅด๋ฏ€๋กœ, ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์˜ ํŠน์„ฑ์„ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ฐ”๋žŒ์งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ๋งž์ถค ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ๋ฒ•

์นœ๊ตฌ์™€์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„๋กœ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” “I understand your point”์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€ ์ž…์žฅ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฐ˜๋ฉด, ์ผ์ƒ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ๋Š” ๊ฐ€๋ฒผ์šด “How’s your day?” ๊ฐ™์€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์ด ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ ๋•์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด ๊ด€๋ จ ์˜คํ•ด ๋ฐฉ์ง€ ํŒ

๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•œ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๋ ค๋ฉด, ๋ชจํ˜ธํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ๋ง์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ˜์‘ํ•˜๊ณ , ํ•„์š”์‹œ ์ง์ ‘์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ๊ณผ์ •์—์„œ “Sorry if I misunderstood” ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ A: ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์ „์— ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜์—ฌ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ B: ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋งž๋Š” ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“์œผ์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ C: ์˜คํ•ด ๋ฐœ์ƒ ์‹œ ์ฆ‰์‹œ ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์‹œ๋„ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

5. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€์˜ ์˜์–ด ์†Œํ†ต์—์„œ ํ”ํžˆ ๊ฒช๋Š” ์–ด๋ ค์›€๊ณผ ๊ทน๋ณต๋ฒ•

1) ์–ธ์–ด ์žฅ๋ฒฝ๊ณผ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต ๋ฌธ์ œ

์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต์ด ์›ํ™œํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋•Œ, ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ช…๋ฃŒํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ์ดํ•ดํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์ •์ค‘ํžˆ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋˜ํ•œ, ๋น„์–ธ์–ด์  ํ‘œํ˜„(ํ‘œ์ •, ์ œ์Šค์ฒ˜)์„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•œ ๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„์˜ ์˜คํ•ด

๊ฐ์ •์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹๋„ ๋ฌธํ™”๋งˆ๋‹ค ๋‹ค๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์ง์ ‘์ ์ธ ์นญ์ฐฌ์ด ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ๋„ ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์„ธ์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ด€์ฐฐํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

ํ•„์š” ์‹œ, “Is this okay to say?”์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๋ฌป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋„์›€์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ์™€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋Œ€ ์ฐจ์ด ๊ทน๋ณต๋ฒ•

์„œ๋กœ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋Œ€์— ๊ฑฐ์ฃผํ•  ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์—ฐ๋ฝ ํƒ€์ด๋ฐ์„ ๋งž์ถ”๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ต์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋•Œ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ์—ฐ๋ฝ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ์กฐ์œจํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚จ๊ฒจ๋‘๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์ด์–ด๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

“I’ll message you when you’re free” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

6. ์žฅ๊ธฐ์  ์šฐ์ •์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์˜์–ด ์†Œํ†ต ํŒ๊ณผ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๊ฐ•ํ™” ์ „๋žต

1) ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ๊ด€์‹ฌ๊ณผ ์†Œํ†ต ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ธฐ

์žฅ๊ธฐ ์šฐ์ •์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์—ฐ๋ฝ์ด ํ•„์ˆ˜์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๊ธฐ์ ์œผ๋กœ “Let’s catch up soon”์ด๋‚˜ “Looking forward to our chat” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์†Œํ†ต ์˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ž‘์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ๋“ค์ด ์Œ“์—ฌ ๊นŠ์€ ์šฐ์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐœ์ „ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋‚ ๊ณผ ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๊ธฐ

์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ƒ์ผ, ๊ธฐ๋…์ผ ๋“ฑ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋‚ ์— ์ถ•ํ•˜ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์šฐ์ •์„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ์ข‹์€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. “Happy Birthday! I’m grateful for your friendship” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋ฌด๋‚œํ•˜๊ณ  ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด์™ธ์—๋„, ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”๋‚˜ ์Œ์‹์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์„ ๋†’์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์‹œ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฒ• ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ

๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ “I understand your point” ๋˜๋Š” “Let’s find a solution together” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด๋Œ์–ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋˜ํ•œ, ์˜คํ•ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋Š” “Sorry if I misunderstood”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํšŒ๋ณต์— ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 1: ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์—ฐ๋ฝ๊ณผ ๊ด€์‹ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“์œผ์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 2: ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋‚ ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ „ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 3: ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ๋ฐœ์ƒ ์‹œ ์นจ์ฐฉํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”์™€ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋กœ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

7. ์ž์ฃผ ๋ฌป๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ (FAQ)

Q. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์†Œํ†ตํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์™€ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ์–ธ์–ด ์ „๋‹ฌ์„ ๋„˜์–ด์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ดํ•ด์™€ ์ง„์‹ฌ ์–ด๋ฆฐ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์šฐ์ • ์œ ์ง€์— ํฐ ์—ญํ• ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋˜ํ•œ, ์†”์งํ•œ ๊ฐ์ • ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์†Œํ†ต๋„ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๋ถ€์กฑํ•  ๋•Œ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์ข‹์„๊นŒ์š”?
๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ์šฐ์„  ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์–ด๋ ค์šด ํ‘œํ˜„๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‰ฌ์šด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋” ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋‚˜ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์†”์งํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๊ณ , ๋ฐ˜๋ณตํ•ด์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ตํžˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ž…์žฅ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด “I understand your point”๋‚˜ “Let’s find a solution together” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด ํ˜‘๋ ฅ ์˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๋˜ํ•œ, ์˜คํ•ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋Š” “Sorry if I misunderstood”๋ผ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๊ณผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•œ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์˜ˆ๋ฐฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”?
์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ์‚ฌ์ „์— ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ณ , ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‹ ์ค‘ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ชจํ˜ธํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ๋ง์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€์‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ํ•„์š”์‹œ ์ง์ ‘ ํ™•์ธํ•˜๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋‹ฌ๋ผ ์—ฐ๋ฝ์ด ์–ด๋ ต๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
์„œ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ์กฐ์œจํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ๋ฉ”์‹œ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚จ๊ฒจ๋‘๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด “I’ll message you when you’re free”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฐฐ๋ คํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์ด์–ด๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ๋ธ”๋กœ๊ทธ์˜ ์ธ๊ธฐ ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ

๊ฐ์‹ค ์ฒญ์†Œ ์š”์ฒญ·๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ํ˜ธํ…” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ •๋ฆฌ

๋งต๊ธฐ ์กฐ์ ˆ ์š”์ฒญ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”

์ง€๊ธˆ ๋†“์น˜๋ฉด ํ›„ํšŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋“€์˜ค๋ง๊ณ  ํ”„๋ฆฌ๋ฏธ์—„ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ์ฒดํ—˜ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”