์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ “๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํŽธํ•ด” ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•

์ด๋ฏธ์ง€
์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์นœ๋ฐ€๊ฐ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์„ ๋•Œ, “๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํŽธํ•ด”๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์„ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ• ์ง€ ๊ณ ๋ฏผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„์ด ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•œ ์ง์—ญ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์•Œ์•„๋‘๋ฉด ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์›Œ์ง€์ฃ . ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„๋กœ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ ํ•ฉํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ์š”? ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: “๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํŽธํ•ด”๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ๊ณผ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋‰˜์•™์Šค ์ดํ•ด์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ์นœ๊ทผํ•จ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ธ ์˜ˆ์‹œ์™€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ• ์†Œ๊ฐœ 1. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ “๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ํŽธํ•ด”๋ฅผ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ ์˜๋ฏธ ์ „๋‹ฌ 1) “I feel comfortable around you” – ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ง๊ด€์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„ “I feel comfortable around you”๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌ์  ์•ˆ์ •์„ ๋А๋‚€๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ, ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ด๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์นœ๊ทผํ•จ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ์ •์ ์ด์ง€ ์•Š์•„ ์ผ์ƒ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ๋„๋ฆฌ ์“ฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ ์ฒ˜์Œ ์นœํ•ด์ง€๋Š” ๋‹จ๊ณ„์—์„œ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์กฐ์„ฑํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 2) “Being with you feels easy” – ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ข€ ๋” ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ ํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๊ฐ€๊ฐ€๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ฒซ์ธ์‚ฌ ๊ฟ€ํ‘œํ˜„ “Being with you feels easy”๋Š” ‘ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์‰ฝ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†๋‹ค’๋Š” ๋А๋‚Œ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ ‘easy’๋Š” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ๊ณผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›€์„ ๊ฐ•์กฐํ•ด, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ํŠน๋ณ„ํžˆ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๋‹ค๋Š” ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๋ฅผ ๋‹ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์นœ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์—ฐ์ธ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋ฉฐ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ ํ•ฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 3) “I’m at ease when I’m with you” – ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํฌ๋ฉ€ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ง„์‹ฌ์„ ๋‹ด์€ ํ‘œํ˜„ “I’m at ease when I’m with you”๋Š” ๊ณต์‹์ ์ด๊ณ  ์ง„์ง€ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์“ฐ๊ธฐ ์ข‹์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ‘at ease’๋Š” ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ๋†“์ด๊ณ  ๊ธด์žฅ...

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํ™œ๋™์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์•„๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์›ํ™œํ•œ ์†Œํ†ต๊ณผ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ํ˜•์„ฑ์— ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์ด ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์—๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ๋ฏธ๋ฌ˜ํ•œ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๊ฐ€ ๋‹ด๊ฒจ ์žˆ์–ด, ์–ด๋–ค ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋А๋ƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ค ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์ด ์‹ค์ œ ๋Œ€ํ™”์—์„œ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 1: ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 2: ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ๊ณผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ๊ณผ์˜ ๊ด€๊ณ„์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ ํ•ฉํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์œ ํ˜•์ด ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์ง„๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์š”์•ฝ 3: ๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ์ด ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ํ˜‘์—…์˜ ์—ด์‡ ์ด๋‹ค.

1. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ž์ฃผ ์“ฐ์ด๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ๊ทธ ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ•

1) ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ์š”์ฒญ

์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ ํ™œ๋™์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, "Would you like to..."๋‚˜ "How about..." ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ œ์•ˆ์œผ๋กœ ๋งŽ์ด ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์˜์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋ฉฐ, ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ์˜ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ๋„ ์—ด์–ด๋‘์–ด ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ฒ˜์Œ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ ํ•ฉํ•œ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋กœ ๊ผฝํž™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ํ˜‘์—…์ด๋‚˜ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ ๊ด€๋ จ ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ์ž์ฃผ ์“ฐ์ด๋Š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ

๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค๋‚˜ ํ•™์—… ๋“ฑ ํ˜‘์—… ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ๊ตฌ์ฒด์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "Would you be interested in collaborating on..."์ด๋‚˜ "I’d like to invite you to join..." ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ์„ ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–์ถ˜ ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์ฐธ์—ฌ ์˜์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฌป๋Š” ๋™์‹œ์—, ์ œ์•ˆํ•˜๋Š” ํ™œ๋™์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํžˆ ํ•˜์—ฌ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๋Š” ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ์˜ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„

์ด๋ฏธ ์นœ๋ถ„์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ๋Š” ์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "Do you want to hang out and..." ๋˜๋Š” "Let’s try..." ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์€ ์ผ์ƒ์ ์ด๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œ ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋”์šฑ ๋ˆ๋…ํžˆ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์นœ๊ทผํ•จ์ด ์ง€๋‚˜์น˜๋ฉด ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฏ€๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์„ฑํ–ฅ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜์—ฌ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ†ค์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ๋งž์ถค ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๊ณ ๋ ค์‚ฌํ•ญ

1) ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ๊ณผ ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ ๊ตฌ๋ถ„

๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” "Would you be available to..."๋‚˜ "I would appreciate it if you could join..." ๊ฐ™์€ ํฌ๋ฉ€ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ์ ํ•ฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์กด์ค‘์„ ํ‘œํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํžˆ ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ์˜๋„๋ฅผ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฐ˜๋ฉด ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ๋Š” ์ข€ ๋” ์ž์œ ๋กœ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์ด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ์ด๋Š” ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜ ์นœ๋ฐ€๋„๋ฅผ ๋ฐ˜์˜ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด์™€ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต ์Šคํƒ€์ผ ์ดํ•ด

๋ฌธํ™”๋งˆ๋‹ค ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ์‹์ด ๋‹ค๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, ์ง์ ‘์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด, ์™„๊ณกํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ„์ ‘์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๋” ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ณ , ๊ทธ์— ๋งž๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ์†Œํ†ต๊ณผ ํ˜‘์—…์— ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์ œ์•ˆ ์„ฑ๊ณต๋ฅ ์„ ๋†’์ด๋Š” ์†Œํ†ต ํŒ

ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์ œ์•ˆ ์ „๋‹ฌ์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ํŒ

  • ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ ๋ชฉ์ ๊ณผ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ„๊ฒฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•œ๋‹ค.
  • ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ์—ด๋ฆฐ ์ž์„ธ๋กœ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•˜๊ณ  ์œ ์—ฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€์ฒ˜ํ•œ๋‹ค.
  • ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์กด์นญ๊ณผ ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–์ถ”์–ด ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋ฅผ ์Œ“๋Š”๋‹ค.
ํ‘œํ˜„ ์œ ํ˜• ์ฃผ์š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ ์˜ˆ์‹œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ์ƒํ™ฉ ํŠน์ง• ๋ฐ ์ฃผ์˜์ 
์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ Would you like to..., How about... ์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ, ๊ณต์‹์ /๋น„๊ณต์‹์  ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„์ด๊ณ  ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ์„ ํƒ๊ถŒ ์กด์ค‘
ํ˜‘์—… ์ œ์•ˆ Would you be interested in..., I’d like to invite you to... ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค, ํ•™์—… ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ ๋ชฉ์  ๋ช…ํ™•, ์˜ˆ์˜ ๊ฐ–์ถค
์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ Do you want to..., Let’s try... ์นœ๊ตฌ, ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์ž์œ ๋กญ๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ์„ฑํ–ฅ ๊ณ ๋ ค ํ•„์š”
๊ณต์‹ ์ œ์•ˆ Would you be available to..., I would appreciate it if... ๊ณต์‹ ๋ชจ์ž„, ์—…๋ฌด ๊ด€๋ จ ํฌ๋ฉ€, ์กด์ค‘ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”

๋‹ค์Œ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์—์„œ๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค์„ ์‹ค์ œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋งž๊ฒŒ ์‘์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ๋Œ€์ฒ˜๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3. ์‹ค์ œ ์ ์šฉ ์‚ฌ๋ก€: ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„์˜ ํšจ๊ณผ์™€ ์‹ค์ „ ํŒ

1) ์ง์žฅ ๋‚ด ํ˜‘์—… ์ œ์•ˆ์—์„œ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ณต ๊ฒฝํ—˜

ํ•œ ๊ธ€๋กœ๋ฒŒ IT ํšŒ์‚ฌ์—์„œ ๊ทผ๋ฌดํ•˜๋Š” ๋งˆํฌ๋Š” ์‹ ์ œํ’ˆ ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ์— ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ๋™๋ฃŒ์—๊ฒŒ ํ˜‘์—…์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ, "Would you be interested in collaborating on this project?"๋ผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์˜ˆ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ฐ–์ถ”์–ด ๋™๋ฃŒ์˜ ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์ด๋Œ์–ด๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋งˆํฌ๋Š” ์ฒ˜์Œ์— ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํžˆ “Let’s work together”๋ผ๊ณ  ํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ๋А๋ผ๋Š” ๋“ฏํ•œ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณด์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ดํ›„ ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊พธ์ž ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์ด์–ด์กŒ๊ณ , ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ์˜ ์›ํ™œํ•œ ์ง„ํ–‰์— ๊ธฐ์—ฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ ๋ฐฉ์‹์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ

์ผ๋ณธ ๊ธฐ์—…๊ณผ ํ˜‘์—…ํ•˜๋Š” ํ•œ๊ตญ์˜ ํ•œ ๋งˆ์ผ€ํ„ฐ๋Š” ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ฐ„์ ‘์ ์ด๊ณ  ์™„๊ณกํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "I was wondering if you might be interested in joining our upcoming event?"๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ฒด๋ฉด์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์‹œ์— ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ๊ฒฝํ—˜์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋งž๋Š” ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜์ด ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ์ง€ ์‹ค๊ฐํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ, ์ดํ›„ ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ๋จผ์ € ํŒŒ์•…ํ•˜๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€์„ ๋“ค์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ์˜ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ œ์•ˆ ์‚ฌ๋ก€

๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์œ ํ•™ ์ค‘์ธ ์ˆ˜์ง„์€ ์นœ๊ตฌ์ธ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ ์ฃผ๋ง ํ™œ๋™์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ, "Do you want to grab some coffee and catch up?"๋ผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋Š” ์นœ๊ทผํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€์˜ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ์œ ๋„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์ˆ˜์ง„์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋ฐ”์˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋‚ด์„ฑ์ ์ธ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š” “Let me know if you’re free”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๋ง๋ถ™์—ฌ ์ƒ๋Œ€์˜ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ์„ ๋ฐฐ๋ คํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ๋ณด์˜€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 1: ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ๊ณผ ์„ฑํ–ฅ์„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜๋ผ.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 2: ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์˜์‚ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํ˜‘์—… ์„ฑ๊ณต๋ฅ ์„ ๋†’์ธ๋‹ค.
  • ํ•ต์‹ฌ ํŒ 3: ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ๋Š” ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋˜, ์ƒ๋Œ€์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€์‘ํ•˜๋ผ.
์ œ์•ˆ ์ƒํ™ฉ ์‚ฌ์šฉ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์˜ˆ์‹œ ์ƒ๋Œ€ ๋ฐ˜์‘ ํšจ๊ณผ ๋ฐ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ
๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ํ˜‘์—… Would you be interested in collaborating on... ๊ธ์ •์ , ์ฐธ์—ฌ ์˜์‚ฌ ๋ช…ํ™• ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ ์ง„ํ–‰ ์›ํ™œ, ์‹ ๋ขฐ ๊ตฌ์ถ•
๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด ๊ณ ๋ ค ์ œ์•ˆ I was wondering if you might be interested in... ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์ ์Œ, ๊ธ์ •์  ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ ํ˜‘์ƒ ๋ฐ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”
์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๊ฐ„ ์ œ์•ˆ Do you want to hang out and... ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”, ํ™œ๋™ ์ฐธ์—ฌ ์ฆ๊ฐ€
๊ณต์‹ ๋ชจ์ž„ ์ดˆ๋Œ€ I would appreciate it if you could join... ์กด์ค‘ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๋А๋‚Œ, ์ˆ˜์šฉ๋ฅ  ๋†’์Œ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๋„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ, ํ˜‘๋ ฅ ์ฆ์ง„

4. ํ‘œํ˜„ ์„ ํƒ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ๋ฏธ๋ฌ˜ํ•œ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค์™€ ๋Œ€์‘ ์ „๋žต

1) ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ์˜๋„ ์ „๋‹ฌ๊ณผ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค์˜ ์ฐจ์ด

์˜์–ด ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋‹จ์–ด ํ•˜๋‚˜, ๋ฌธ์žฅ ๊ตฌ์กฐ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์ด ๋А๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋„์™€ ํƒœ๋„๊ฐ€ ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, "Would you like to join?"์€ ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ์ •์ค‘ํ•œ ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด, "Join us"๋Š” ๋‹ค์†Œ ์ง์„ค์ ์ด๊ณ  ๋ช…๋ น์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋“ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋”ฐ๋ผ์„œ ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ๊ณผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ๋ฏธ๋ฌ˜ํ•œ ์ฐจ์ด๋ฅผ ์‹ ์ค‘ํžˆ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ๊ฑฐ์ ˆ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ ์—ด์–ด๋‘๊ธฐ: ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์™„ํ™” ํšจ๊ณผ

์ œ์•ˆ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ์— ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์—ฌ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌ์  ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„์ด๋Š” ๋ฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "If you're interested..."๋‚˜ "Feel free to say no if you're busy." ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€์˜ ํŽธ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋กœ ์ธํ•ด ๋Œ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋” ์›ํ™œํ•ด์ง€๊ณ , ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋” ๊นŠ์–ด์งˆ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ๋†’์•„์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ๋ฐ˜์‘์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅธ ์œ ์—ฐํ•œ ๋Œ€์ฒ˜๋ฒ•

์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์ฆ‰๋‹ต์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ง์„ค์ผ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ, "Take your time to think about it."์ด๋‚˜ "Let me know whenever you decide."๋ผ๋Š” ์œ ์—ฐํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด์–ด๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ „๋žต์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€์—๊ฒŒ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•œ ๊ณต๊ฐ„์„ ์ œ๊ณตํ•˜์—ฌ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€๊ฐ ์—†์ด ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์ง€์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋•์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

  • ์ฃผ์˜์‚ฌํ•ญ 1: ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ง์„ค์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๊ฑฐ๋ถ€๊ฐ์„ ์œ ๋ฐœํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ์ฃผ์˜ํ•˜๋ผ.
  • ์ฃผ์˜์‚ฌํ•ญ 2: ํ•ญ์ƒ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ์ž…์žฅ์„ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•œ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์„ ํƒํ•ด์•ผ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๊ฐ€ ์Œ“์ธ๋‹ค.
  • ์ฃผ์˜์‚ฌํ•ญ 3: ์ฆ‰๊ฐ์  ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด ์—†๋”๋ผ๋„ ์••๋ฐ•ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ์ธ๋‚ด์‹ฌ์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค.

5. ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ธ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ์ถ”์ฒœ ํ•™์Šต ์ž๋ฃŒ ๋ฐ ๋„๊ตฌ

1) ์˜์–ด ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๊ฐ•ํ™”์šฉ ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ์ฝ”์Šค

Coursera๋‚˜ Udemy ๊ฐ™์€ ํ”Œ๋žซํผ์—์„œ๋Š” ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค ์˜์–ด ๋ฐ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆ์ผ€์ด์…˜ ์Šคํ‚ฌ์„ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๊ฐ•์ขŒ๊ฐ€ ์ œ๊ณต๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ, ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ๊ณผ์˜ ํ˜‘์—… ๋ฐ ์ œ์•ˆ์— ํŠนํ™”๋œ ๊ณผ์ •์€ ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๊ตฌ์„ฑ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์–ด ์‹ค์šฉ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “Business English: Making Proposals” ์ฝ”์Šค๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ์‘๋Œ€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฒด๊ณ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด ๊ตํ™˜ ์•ฑ

์–ธ์–ด ๊ตํ™˜ ์•ฑ์ธ Tandem์ด๋‚˜ HelloTalk๋ฅผ ํ™œ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์›์–ด๋ฏผ๊ณผ ์ง์ ‘ ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ๊ณผ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ์ฐจ์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ดํ•ด๋„ ๋†’์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด ์ถ”์ฒœ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์ „๋ฌธ ์„œ์ ๊ณผ ์ฐธ๊ณ  ๋ฌธํ—Œ

“English for International Communication”๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ „๋ฌธ ์„œ์ ์€ ๊ณต์‹, ๋น„๊ณต์‹ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ์˜ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„๊ณผ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋ฅผ ํญ๋„“๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๋ฃน๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹ ๋ขฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ถœํŒ์‚ฌ์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜จ ์ตœ์‹ ํŒ์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜๋ฉด ์ตœ์‹  ํŠธ๋ Œ๋“œ์™€ ๋ฌธ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐ˜์˜ํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ์ ‘ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

6. ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ๋ณ„ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๋น„๊ต ๋ฐ ์ตœ์  ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ•

1) ๊ณต์‹ ๋Œ€ ๋น„๊ณต์‹ ์ œ์•ˆ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๋น„๊ต

๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ๋Š” “I would appreciate it if you could join…” ๊ฐ™์€ ํฌ๋ฉ€ํ•œ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ์ ํ•ฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด, ๋น„๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋Š” “How about we go for a coffee?” ๊ฐ™์€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๋” ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋‘ ์œ ํ˜• ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ ์กด์ค‘์€ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ด๋ฉฐ, ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋งž๊ฒŒ ํ†ค๊ณผ ๋‹จ์–ด ์„ ํƒ์„ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

2) ํ˜‘์—… ์ œ์•ˆ๊ณผ ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ์ฐจ๋ณ„ํ™”

ํ˜‘์—… ์ œ์•ˆ์€ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ๋ชฉ์  ์ „๋‹ฌ๊ณผ ์˜ˆ์˜๊ฐ€ ํ•„์ˆ˜์ง€๋งŒ, ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ์€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๋Œ€ํ™” ํ๋ฆ„๊ณผ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ์— ์ค‘์ ์„ ๋‘ก๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, “Would you be interested in collaborating on…”์™€ “Let’s try that new cafe!”๋Š” ๊ฐ๊ฐ์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์— ์ตœ์ ํ™”๋œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3) ์žฅ๊ธฐ์  ๊ด€๊ณ„ ๊ตฌ์ถ•์„ ์œ„ํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ „๋žต

๋‹จ๊ธฐ์ ์ธ ์ œ์•ˆ์— ๊ทธ์น˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ์žฅ๊ธฐ์  ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ, “I look forward to working with you”๋‚˜ “Let’s keep in touch for future activities” ๋“ฑ์˜ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ํ™œ์šฉํ•ด ์‹ ๋ขฐ์™€ ์ง€์†์ ์ธ ์†Œํ†ต ์˜์ง€๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ƒํ™ฉ ํ‘œํ˜„ ์˜ˆ์‹œ ์ ํ•ฉ์„ฑ ์žฅ์ 
๊ณต์‹ ์ œ์•ˆ I would appreciate it if you could join... ๊ณต์‹ ๋ชจ์ž„, ์—…๋ฌด ๋†’์€ ์กด์ค‘๋„, ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•œ ์˜๋„ ์ „๋‹ฌ
๋น„๊ณต์‹ ์ œ์•ˆ How about hanging out this weekend? ์นœ๊ตฌ, ์นœ๋ฐ€ํ•œ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ ์กฐ์„ฑ
ํ˜‘์—… ์ œ์•ˆ Would you be interested in collaborating on... ๋น„์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์Šค, ํ•™์—… ํ”„๋กœ์ ํŠธ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์˜ ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ์˜์‚ฌ์†Œํ†ต
์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์ œ์•ˆ Do you want to grab coffee and chat? ์นœ๊ตฌ, ์ง€์ธ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•จ, ์นœ๊ทผ๊ฐ ์ƒ์Šน

7. ์ž์ฃผ ๋ฌป๋Š” ์งˆ๋ฌธ (FAQ)

Q. ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ ์ฒ˜์Œ ํ™œ๋™ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ ํ•ฉํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
์ฒ˜์Œ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” “Would you like to…”๋‚˜ “How about…” ๊ฐ™์€ ์ •์ค‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ ํ•ฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋“ค์€ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ œ์•ˆ ์˜๋„๋ฅผ ๋ช…ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์ด๋Œ์–ด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ๋ฌธํ™” ์ฐจ์ด๊ฐ€ ํฐ ์ƒ๋Œ€์—๊ฒŒ ์ œ์•ˆ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ฃผ์˜ํ•  ์ ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€์š”?
๋ฌธํ™”๋งˆ๋‹ค ์ง์ ‘์ ์ธ ์˜์‚ฌ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ์ •๋„๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๋ฏ€๋กœ, ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฌธํ™”์  ๋ฐฐ๊ฒฝ์„ ์‚ฌ์ „์— ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์™„๊ณกํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ„์ ‘์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์„ ํ˜ธํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฌธํ™”๊ถŒ์—์„œ๋Š” “I was wondering if you might be interested…” ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ค„์—ฌ์ค๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์ฃผ์˜ ๊นŠ๊ฒŒ ๊ด€์ฐฐํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์กฐ์ ˆํ•˜๋Š” ํƒœ๋„๋„ ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์„ ์—ด์–ด๋‘๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋‚˜์š”?
์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก “If you’re interested, let me know” ๋˜๋Š” “Feel free to say no if you’re busy” ๊ฐ™์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ๋ง๋ถ™์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์€ ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์„ ๋œ ๋А๋ผ๊ณ  ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ์˜์‚ฌ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ์นœ๊ทผํ•œ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ํ™œ๋™์„ ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•˜๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์€?
์นœ๋ถ„์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋Š” “Do you want to hang out and…” ๋˜๋Š” “Let’s try…” ๊ฐ™์€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋งŒ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด๋‚˜ ์ผ์ •์— ๋งž๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€๋‹ด์„ ์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š๋„๋ก “Let me know if you’re free”์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์—ด๋ฆฐ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ข‹์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
Q. ๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ๋ชจ์ž„์ด๋‚˜ ์—…๋ฌด ๊ด€๋ จ ์ œ์•ˆ ์‹œ ์ ์ ˆํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€?
๊ณต์‹์ ์ธ ์ž๋ฆฌ์—์„œ๋Š” “Would you be available to…” ๋˜๋Š” “I would appreciate it if you could join…” ๊ฐ™์€ ํฌ๋ฉ€ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์กด์ค‘์„ ๋‹ด์€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ฌธ๊ตฌ๋Š” ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฐฉ์—๊ฒŒ ์‹ ๋ขฐ๊ฐ์„ ์ฃผ๋ฉฐ ์ œ์•ˆ์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ด ๋ธ”๋กœ๊ทธ์˜ ์ธ๊ธฐ ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ

๊ฐ์‹ค ์ฒญ์†Œ ์š”์ฒญ·๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ•  ๋•Œ ์“ฐ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ํ˜ธํ…” ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„ ์ •๋ฆฌ

์ง€๊ธˆ ๋†“์น˜๋ฉด ํ›„ํšŒํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋“€์˜ค๋ง๊ณ  ํ”„๋ฆฌ๋ฏธ์—„ ๋ฌด๋ฃŒ ์ฒดํ—˜ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”

๋งต๊ธฐ ์กฐ์ ˆ ์š”์ฒญ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”